schmuck
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nola, XX, USA |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:15 |
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if ive said it once ive said it a thousand times "if it werent so damn disgusting id just be gay"
nucking futs
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Bowtie Blazer
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Baton Rouge, LA, USA |
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Registered on 5/27/2003 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:19 |
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She may know you but that means she also knows how to fawk with your head
I learned that the hard way too, there are decent girls out there still, I've had my share of crazies and turn downs who don't want to know you, let them walk, their looking for another type, don't sweat it dude, they're out there, if you're open to them their there for you when you least expect it. Don't look at yourself so harsh, be confident and let the game work.
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Atomic
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New Orleans, LA, USA |
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Registered on 1/9/2004 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:30 |
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Kris>
i know what you mean.. its like that old saying..
"women.. cant live with em.. cant shoot em.. ..cant be gay."
but my luck.. even if i was gay id end up going for the feminine ones.. and then id be in the same place anyway.
Josh>
i didnt think i was being all that hard on myself. ive come a long way from where i was in high school. im sure i still have a long way to go, but i know i have lots of good qualities. its getting the chickies to look past the physical long enough for me to hook em with my personality.
sometimes i wish it was still neanderthal times where i could just club one and drag her off to my secret lair. 
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schmuck
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nola, XX, USA |
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Registered on 5/21/2003 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:32 |
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this is what women are good for http://www.blackmaxpc.com/avatarsmiles/smiles/bj.gif" />
but what they realy make me want to do is
but of course im not talking about my wife because she is an
of course she is standing over my shoulder watch me type this
nucking futs
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lee Alessi
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Denham Springs, LA, USA |
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Registered on 6/3/2003 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:40 |
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btdt
16~19 dated and got engaged
19 got the same line you did when i was in japan with USMC, i was devastated
20 came home,met the guy doin butt tricks with her, he had some funny stories,
21~24 i learned my lesson, had fun
24~30 married to a wingnut, i love,and cant stand sometimes! |
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Herbert Vining Jr
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Patterson, LA, USA |
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Registered on 11/19/2002 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:43 |
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if you fall down keep gettin' up, I had my heart broken once or twice, not a great feeling but at least it gets easier as time goes on, my first heartbreak happened when I was over 9,000 miles from my home, friends, family, so I was completely devestated and know how you feel. She said she missed clubbing (which I wasn't into and was very insecure when she went) and that I was too jealous and insecure and that she wasn't ready to settle down. So when I knew she was out clubbing I'd cover up all the clocks so I wouldn't know what time it was and wouldn't be thinking about the time where she was and if she was still out, etc. Took me about a year to get over her and be fully back to my normal self. As others have said it's a learning experience, I learned lots from her and would never change it for anything, I'm not clingy, jealous or insecure anymore in relationships, I learned to be more indepent and not try as hard to find that special girl, just let nature take it's course, it might take longer than you like but you'll have fun along the way, I thought I'd never be that happy with a girl again, but I've had some fun/happy relationships since then, and as I learn from each of them I apply what I've learned to the next one, I've learned the best things you can do, is be yourself, be honest, and expect the unexpected, especially with women, cause you never know what's going on with them
1980 Bronco (Big Bertha / The Beast) 351M/C6/NP208/D44/9"/33's
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Atomic
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New Orleans, LA, USA |
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Registered on 1/9/2004 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:54 |
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wow, thanks again for all the support guys. its really helping me out.
im just going to enjoy my band and try to get past this whole thing. it wont take me long. im dealing with it as we speak. as soon as i can stop seeing her face when i close my eyes it will be ok.
if ya'll know of any kool girlies that would go for me bring em to the M&G.. might as well.
Lee> how did you meet the guy without completely ripping his guts out?
HVJ> you suggesting i schedule a few vacations?
what i dont understand though, is im not jealous or insecure. i dont keep after them or wonder where they are. i just trust. maybe thats my problem. maybe because other guys theyve dated have treated them badly, hit them, cheated, etc.. theyre used to that.. and i come along and i dont do any of that stuf.. just treat them well and with respect.. it freaks them out.
i dont understand why it should. as far as im concerned, if you have always had people treat you bad.. and you finally get someone that treats you good, you hold on to em.
but then again.. i think rationally.
-Joe-
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schmuck
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nola, XX, USA |
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Registered on 5/21/2003 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:56 |
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you summed the whole thing up in your last sentance
nucking futs
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Atomic
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New Orleans, LA, USA |
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Registered on 1/9/2004 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 22:58 |
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yeah i noticed that too..
what the hell is up with that? are theyre any girls out there that think rationally (that arent lesbians?) or am i just doomed? lol
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schmuck
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nola, XX, USA |
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Registered on 5/21/2003 |
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Posted:2/3/2004 23:00 |
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dont kid yourself man even the carpet munchers are nuts, been there done that, dont ask
nucking futs
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