NEED INFO ON WHAT WHEELS ARE INTERCHANGABLE

OK I HAVE A 2002 GRAND MARQUIS WITH THE TYPICAL STOCK TIRE SIZE I WANTED TO CHANGE OUT THE RIMS BECAUSE THE POWDER COATING WAS COMING OFF SO I FOUND A SET.OF HOT LOOKING WHEELS AND TIRES OFF A 2007 MUSTANG COBRA GT 17X7 RIMS AND 235/55-17 LIKE NEW TIRES THESE ARE THE WHEELS THAT LOOK LIKE THE BULLET OR TORQUE THRUST RIMS BUT THE WON'T GO ON THE HIT THE SWAY BAR AND THE UPPER BALL JOINT LOCALLY THEY WANT ME TO BUY THIS HUGE ADAPTER AND I WON'T PUT THAT STRAIN ON MY LUG AND BEARINGS PLUS I DON'T LIKE OR WILL I TOLERATE MY CAR LOOKING LIKE A MOON BUGGY AND WHERE CAR I GET A POWER PROGRAMMER FOR THE COMPUTER TO TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE OF THE IMPROVEMENTS THAT HAVE BEEN DONE SO THANKS I NEED HELP